At 5:30 pm, we were told that the doctor would like to speak with us. My Grandma, Mom, and Aunt went to go speak with the doctor. The entire time they were gone was the longest time I've ever had to endure. We knew it was either going to be one of two things: 1. my Grandpa didn't make it through surgery; or 2. my Grandpa made it.
Between 6 and 6:15, my Grandma was being escorted by my Mom and Aunt, and all three were in tears. My Grandpa didn't make it through surgery.
We opted to see my Grandpa one last time before we left the hospital that night. When I saw my Grandpa, it was just a body to me. That was not my Grandpa. In a way, I wish that I hadn't have seen that body, but I had to see it for myself so I knew it was true.
So, we all went home Tuesday night mentally, physically, and emotionally exhausted.
Wednesday, we spent the day helping my Grandma making arrangements for my Grandpa. His funeral will be this Saturday at Elijah Church of Christ at 11 am, and he will be buried at Sweden Pond Cemetery in Dora.
Even though it's hard for us to understand and move on with life without my Grandpa, I know he's in a better place without pain. Knowing that is SOOO comforting. GOD BLESS.
I am so sorry Manda. I wish I could do or say something that would take the pain away, but I know its nearly impossible. I love you so much. I wish I could make it to the funeral, but I canot do that much traveling with the weather forcast. I love you so very much. - Melody
ReplyDeleteAmanda, I am thinking about you and praying for your whole family. I remember when I lost my grandpa. It was a very sad time in my life but then again I knew he was no longer suffering and that brought me peace. I pray for strength and peace during this time of saddness and loss. If you need anything let me know. I will be thinking of you this Saturday. Take care and God bless.
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